Is being yourself enough when picking up women?
Absolutely not. Being yourself right now is not enough. And the reason is if you want to become a better person and achieve better results in dating, confidence, relationships, work, friendships, social circles then you need to change what you are doing and on a fundamental, l level you need to change who you are.
So if you think that I can just be myself and the get the results i want out of my life, you are completely wrong. Because if you do what you do NOW, you are going to get what you’ve always gotten, you are going get the same results, same money, same financial situations.
You will need to change.
You have to change. You have to change your body language, your confidence, all of these little nuances, your mindset, the way you take action, the feedback, the way you track your action.
But on the flipside, if you lead a life of continuously saying that who I am right now is NOT enough, you are never going to be at this place of completion, you are never going to be at this place where you feel like: Actually I am an awesome person, and I deserve all of these women, money, success. You are never going to feel like being myself is enough.
And doing all these things like changing your body language, communication pushing trough mindsets it’s a tough uphill battle, it’s not effortless.
Being yourself right now, as you are feeling right now reading this article, it’s an effortless process, there is no need to dig in endless wells of willpower.
To be truly yourself, you have to hold these two jewel concepts.
Concept One is who I am right now is myself and that is enough and I am more than enough to meet that particular woman, to have the job of my dreams, to be ripped or whatever your goals are.
On the flipside, you have to say: Being who I am right now, is not going to bring the results, so I need to change things.
The second concept is: Holding contrary ideas, holding paradoxical ideas is the key to success.
So is being yourself enough? Only you can answer that question.
If you still feel you are not enough, talk to Michael Valmont Dating Coach in London.
Michael is one of the world’s leading dating coaches having transformed thousands of people from across the globe. He has been featured in some of the biggest publications and media outlets including Mens Health, Sky News, The Independent & BBC. He is also host to the groundbreaking podcast – Who Is Going To Stop Me